Sunday, October 13, 2013

Purpose of slave resumes & getting started

In Master/slave dynamic, like other dynamics, each Master is different and each dynamic/relationship is unique.  However, it is not uncommon for a slave to identify a Master/Mistress s/he is interested in and offer that person a petition to come into service to him/her.

We will talk about petitions in a later discussion, but if you would like to read ahead and learn a little bit more about petitions, you can find some information at these websites:

http://www.asubmissivesjourney.com/slave_petition.html

http://margelle.org/aboutgoddess/page64/page64.html

http://www.submissiveguide.com/2013/06/single-in-the-scene-part-iv-petitioning/

It is my opinion that, before you put together a petition to a Master/Mistress, you have spent some time assessing your skills and thinking about what you have to offer a potential Master.  This might be a little different to get used to as many of us still think about this type of relationship like a typical romantic relationship.  Of course, Master/slave relationships can have love, but, in general, the focus of M/s dynamics is service.

A slave resume is not unlike a resume you would put together for a job, but with some important differences. This resume will be a little more personal, and, of course, have lifestyle information included as well.

The first second we will look at is the objective.  In any resume, the objective tells the reader exactly what you are looking for, and a really well-written objective slips in important information about you (see:  http://www.wikihow.com/Write-Resume-Objectives).

Some important aspects of a slave resume are:

  • How do you identify/classify yourself?  (submissive, slave, babygirl, alpha slave, etc.) ... and yes, it can be more than one!
  • What exactly are you looking for?  A permanent dynamic?  A temporary contract?  What are some important things you are looking for in a Master?
  • How do you describe yourself?  (using 2 - 5 adjectives)
  • What are some things you hope a Master can provide?
Some examples:

Objective:  To serve a Master in a temporary service contract in order to gain services skills and experience and learn about the observation of House protocols and rituals to enhance my growth as a slave.

Objective:  To serve a Master/Daddy who has a driving need to protect and provide for the growth, development and needs of a devoted, dedicated, creative, affectionate and enthusiastic babygirl/slave who is highly service-oriented.


Objective: I require a Master/Daddy who desires to own and fully possess a dedicated, determined, and affectionate slave/baby-girl.


Objective:  To secure a M/s relationship with a compatible Master as an alpha slave; I am seeking an intimate connection with someone who understands who he is, what he wants and is able to articulate it; I seek honesty, honor; financial and emotional maturity, sexual compatibility; intellectual stimulation; and someone who enjoys community interaction (http://www.denversub.com/resume.html)


See more about slave resumes at: http://www.submissiveguide.com/2013/05/single-in-the-scene-part-iii-the-slave-resume/

2 comments:

  1. I am posting my rough draft of my slave resume for others to view

    https://docs.google.com/document/d/1H6dlABTqa8bvoZbXRIQJ_grPRnjQRoWc7nIdC1_2iRk/edit?usp=sharing

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  2. awesome, marie! ty for sharing!!!

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